Millie Holt - Event Coordinator - Extremely rude & Unhelpful
Where to start..
My partner and I recently got engaged and as you can imagine, we’re overly excited to get married and started wedding venue shopping!! We decided to choose our location - Cheshire.
As we were Googling, we came across Arley Hall & Gardens. We watched the 12 minute video which was presented beautifully. It was also home to Thomas Shelby (Peaky Blinders!) and we instantly fell in love.
We decided to hire a car to view the venue however, we knew before viewing it was going to be our chosen wedding venue, no matter what! The venue was exactly what we had seen in the video so we were set!
Throughout of the process, we were liaising with Milliemae Holt who is one of Arley Hall wedding coordinators. As we got a provisional date set, my partner and I started to discuss price. Of course, before securing a deposit, we wanted to ask if there’s any movement on price in which, who wouldn’t nowadays? You would be silly not to given the cost of living/coming out of a pandemic etc.
We asked 3 different questions regarding pricing and we received the most, unhelpful, rude & dismissive emails back from Millie (pictures attached of our emails for proof!). From the 2nd email, I was extremely taken back as Millie informs us to start looking at other venues if Arley Hall wasn’t in our budget - Wait what?! How could you push a customer to go and book with another venue? Do you not want our service? Especially a customer who is going to depart with over £10,000 of their money?!
My partner and I put that 2nd email down to Millie ‘having a bad day’ even though that shouldn’t really be an excuse. We decided we were going to call Shelagh (meant to be a happiness manager) the next day to relay how Millie has come across rude. The following morning Millie emails back to our 3rd email completely dismissing the conversation which displayed a level of frustration. We knew from here it was wasn’t down to Millie having a ‘bad day’, she’s just unacceptably rude and doesn’t care about her customers. This is meant to be the person who will be working with me on my wedding day! If she can’t answer 3 questions over email, how will she manage my wedding day?! How can we work with someone so rude?
At this point, both Lewis and I are extremely upset and disappointed that such a prestigious venue has someone who works for them that cannot provide basic customer service skills.
My partner and I called Shelagh to inform her of the emails. We relayed exactly what was said hoping Shelagh would show some sincerity and would get Millie to apologise for her actions. However, Shelagh was very defensive over Millie and informed us that Millie has been ‘busy & frustrated’ at our emails. How is that acceptable?! How is our future wedding coordinator getting frustrated at us? How is she blaming the fact Millie is ‘busy’ make it ok to respond dismissively? Honestly, I was and still am in utter shock of how this is acceptable.
There are nicer ways to position ‘no we don’t offer a discount’ however, we didn’t get nice, we didn’t even get basic customer service which you should get if your ready to pay over £10,000. You should also be able to ask 1000 questions if needed.
My partner and I was always going to pay the price however, we were so upset how Millie treated us & the lack of understanding from Shelagh, we’ve decided to go back to the drawing board and start again after securing the date with Cheshire East Registrars.
There is no way we can work with people who clearly don’t want to work with us. If I could give 0 stars, I would. It’s left such a bad taste in my mouth about Arley Hall & Gardens.
Choose wisely where you want to get married as I’ve met some lovely wedding coordinators who actually want to work with you!
20 février 2024
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