Jwvanderheiden Avis 

Jan is a solid man who brings his centeredness, directness and integrity into is coaching and leadership.

The feeling of safety that comes from a man who is this authentic in his expression is truly a gift in an age where others exist in pleasing performance.

I highly recommend Jan as a coach and guide for anyone seeking deeper truth, clarity and authenticity in their lives.

I discovered Jan online some time ago and had been following his work long before joining his three-month Magnetize program. What initially drew me to him was his perspective on relationships, which I found unusually insightful, thoughtful, and deeply human.

I genuinely believe Jan is one of the very few men I’ve encountered who truly understands women, and I think that’s a rare quality. He sees relationships with a depth and sensitivity that goes far beyond conventional dating advice.

What I appreciate most about his approach is that, in a world full of advice about how to attract men, become more desirable, or use femininity strategically, Jan encourages something fundamentally different: authenticity.

In a way, I see him as a guardian of authentic expression. He encourages women to trust their inner voice, communicate honestly, honor their boundaries, and stay true to their standards, even when the world seems to suggest they should lower them. His work is rooted in mutual understanding, emotional maturity, and the courage to be vulnerable. I find that perspective both refreshing and beautiful.

Having participated in Magnetize, I can also say that Jan has created a genuinely valuable framework for exploring relationship patterns and developing greater self-awareness. What surprised me most was how personally involved he was throughout the program. He was incredibly generous with his time, answered our questions thoughtfully, and showed genuine interest in each participant. I really felt that he cared.

I know Jan also works with men, and I think that work is incredibly important. From what I’ve observed, women are often more actively engaged in self-reflection and inner work, and I believe we need more men who are willing to explore their emotional world and understand women’s experiences. I would wholeheartedly recommend Jan to men as well. As a woman, I genuinely wish more men could see relationships through his eyes. I think the world would be a better place.

Ultimately, what I love about Jan’s approach is the message that we don’t need to become someone else to be worthy of love. We can learn to understand ourselves better, express ourselves more honestly, and build relationships in which both people feel seen, respected, and free to be who they are.

I’m genuinely grateful for the experience and wholeheartedly recommend Jan and his Magnetize program.

Jan-Willem helped me develop a sense of confidence and efficiency in what I do - both in my relationship and personal life. He has a way of cutting though the noise and getting to what really needs to change in the deeper levels. I would highly recommend.

An absolute expert in building and maintaining relationships!!! The best!!

I’ve been working 1:1 with Jan for several months now, and he has truly become one of my favourite mentors. He has challenged me, supported me, accepted me, and empowered me to step into a new identity - one that has aligned me with the kind of man I once only dreamed of.

Through our journey together, Jan has helped me understand my triggers in dating and relationships, especially the insecure nervous system responses that came up when my man needed space or had to process his own emotions. He guided me in learning how to communicate my needs in a way my man could understand and respond to.

Whenever I felt anxious, angry, sad, or guilty, Jan was there to support me so I could remain present in my relationship rather than shutting down or running away as I once did.

What I loved most was the balance, Jan could be incredibly gentle when I needed holding, but also tough when I needed to be challenged to see beyond my fears. He reflected back the unhealed parts of me that were longing to be seen, and I’ll be forever grateful that the universe led me to him. I wholeheartedly recommend being in his presence and in this program.